How to choose a wedding ring?
A wedding ring is supposed to be completely different from an engagement ring. When you pay attention to the guidelines related to the appearance of the two types, it is easy to understand that they may even complement each other and each may have visual characteristics that the other ring will not have. So what should you look for when you are impressed by a selection of rings and need to decide? What does the halacha say and how should you best choose? What should a kosher wedding ring look like? It is important to pay attention to a few easy-to-remember rules and thus set out on the path to finding the perfect ring.
Choosing wedding rings
Below are some parameters that need to be considered when choosing jewelry in general and a wedding ring in particular:
- A kosher wedding ring must be made of only one material and not a mixture of raw materials. Several colors of the same material can be combined (yellow gold and white gold, for example) and must be smooth on the inside. Therefore, a name or dedication cannot be engraved on the ring.
- How many carats? Carat is a very important term in the world of jewelry and diamonds. When you understand, even a little bit of its meaning, it is easier to understand a lot of information about the jewelry in question. In gold jewelry, it refers to the degree of purity of the gold itself in the ring. The highest grade is 24 carat, but in most jewelry it will be an alloy of gold with another metal, and the lower the number, the higher the percentage of gold in the ring.
- Personal style and taste – A wedding ring will usually be worn all the time. Hence – it becomes a piece of jewelry that you don’t go anywhere without. Therefore, it must match the personal taste of the person who is supposed to wear it, match their daily clothing style or appearance, and most importantly – be a piece of jewelry that is loved and chosen wholeheartedly.
- Personal design – In recent years, the field of custom jewelry design has developed greatly. Thanks to it, anyone can realize the ring they dream of and even fantasize about. An experienced and professional jewelry designer can help bring the ring to life and make it a reality from thoughts and dreams.
- Forming a Preconceived Opinion – Even if you have an opinion about the look of the desired ring, it is important to approach the designer or stores with an open mind and be prepared to be impressed by models that you had not initially considered. This way, it is easy to see new things, learn about fashion trends, and understand what is happening in the world of jewelry.
Choosing the right ring
The above parameters relate to rings for those getting married in a rabbinate, and even then there are rabbis who are more or less strict, so when in doubt, it is advisable to consult with the rabbi officiating.
Some choose to add stones or engraving after the wedding.
And those who don't get married at the rabbinate can choose any ring they like.
I recommend choosing a ring that you won't get tired of in the future, that will be timeless, that will match your other jewelry, and most importantly, that will be comfortable.
